KIDNAPPED... HELD HOSTAGE!!!

 KIDNAPPED SOMEONE HELP!!!

As always this is a pleasure to share discoveries with you. Just another week of productivity I suddenly was confronted with a mistake that I made and just was not prepared for it. You know how you do something that you can't take back but really wish you could go back and fix it but its done!

And that's what I finally realized thanks to listen to that good old Earl Nightingale

His words are, "It's in the past, it can not be changed, I am sorry, and I will forget about it" Thinking about things this way, what is the point of going back to the past? Now for me I have made mistakes in my life, BIG ONES and Little ones...

I would constantly think about my mistakes, beat myself up about them. I did not feel worthy. I felt trapped like I could not get away. I would feel like I owed the world a debt for my bad decisions.

Think about what happens when someone is Kidnapped. They are being held against there Will. There freedom is gone, they are in the hands of someone else. You would make sure you do not say the wrong thing, or make the wrong move because of the fear of the kidnapper! Thats EXACTLY what we do with the past. We are being held hostage by the PAST!!!

Lets forgive ourselves today and lets move away from the pass and press forward. As the Great JayZ would say, "don't run from the pain, go towards it"
REMEMBER the past is a foreign country they do things there!

"In Life we Live and we Learn and in return we Learn how to Live," rich before thirty

LOVE

There comes a day where you look around you and the ones that you love seem to not be the person that you thought they were. But the even scary part is when you are faced with the reality that the same situations keeps happening with  different people!!!

What is the common denominator? 

YOU YOU YOU YOU! 

See I had to be honest with myself and face the fact that I was searching for people to show me love farther than myself find love from within. See how could someone love you before you love yourself. So ladies and gents when you are having issues with your spouse, significant others, etc. its a strong possibility that it is YOU! 

It's YOU not loving yourself enough to except not being married or looked at as a partner..... 

It's YOU not loving yourself enough to allow someone to call you out of your name, negatively

It's YOU not loving yourself enough to allow people to walk all over you

It's YOU not loving yourself enough to not have a standard of what type of man/women you want in your life... 

I am committed to SOLELY focus on loving the most important person outside of God and that's me... 

When I am better my kids are better, and whosoever that lucky man may be he will then treat me better because there is NOTHING else ALLOWED to do BUT THAT!!!!

"In Life we live and we learn and in return we  learn how to live" rich before thirty


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Stretch?

STRETCH!!!! 

What are your thoughts when you hear the word stretch? For me my immediate thought is someone stretching right before exercising. So I wondered what is actually stretching?..    

Stretch- To cause to extend from one place to another or across a given space: To lengthen, widen, or distend:To reach or put forth; extend:  To make taut; tighten:

So that made me think should I stretch in other areas besides my legs, arms, back, and thighs?
Then I remembered a man that stretched. Who extended his purpose to others and effect the life's by the MILLIONS! 




Martin Luther King is one of the few who STRETCH! 

This was inspired by the recent popular "snippet" by "Billionaire Brown" founder of rich before thirty 

Take a look and really understand what it means to STRETCH....

Let's continue to STRETCH...... 

"in Life we LIVE and we LEARN and in return we LEARN how to LIVE"... rich before thirty

The Gerbil Cage....

Another day of clean up. Well thats what it seemed to be... I was cleaning the bathroom, cleaning the kitchen and then finally got to THE ROOM... my room. I am not sure why in the world I kept avoiding my room but I was. Then less than a minute or two later I was cleaning the Gerbil Cage...

WHAT HAPPENED TO CLEANING MY ROOM?

How in the world am I cleaning the Gerbil cage...

As our Founder would always say how you do anything is how you do everything. So I asked myself what else am I starting and stopping and getting so involved in that I forget what the main thing really is...

So I finished cleaning the cage and off to THE ROOM and when I completed my room I felt complete and releaved. So complete each task and NEVER MOVE ON TILL THE 1st One is COMPLETE!

"In life we live and we learn and in return we learn how to live" rich before thirty

I was recently in training where we were discussing the life stages of a child. What they experience and how they are thinking and all that Jazz. It was so fascinating and I learned so much.  I was so encouraged to see the process and understanding it.

Then, it hit me. The process to walk! First babies can do nothing but watch other people walk and because of this the idea to walk pops in the baby’s mind…..

    

“what are these people doing, I have to get my head up… finally my head  is up all on my own…. Now I have to see the full effect, sitting up accomplish… now I need to get around, let me try out crawling… ok crawling is now checked… ok I think I can pull up now… oh yeah let me take this first step… CRASH!!! Oh my that was a HARD fall… but who cares up I go… WOW am I finally walking?... yes I am walking… forget this walking running time!”

See this process takes a year or more or less, for a little baby to accomplish. WE ALL HAVE ACCOMPLISHED THIS and it’s apparent that we have greatness within us. We have all the support as babies and we HAVE TO FIND the same support as adults. 

Lets quit LESS and Support more….

In Life we Live and we Learn and in return we Learn how to Live…. rich before thirty