The Mirror....

 I remember once staring in the mirror was a difficult thing. I remember that taken pictures that looked really great made me feel uncomfortable. I remember when saying something I felt was the most horrifying thing. I remember when I would put an outfit on that I thought expressed who I was but it never made it out of the door because I did not want to ruffle anyone's feather. I remember when I accepted being called out of  my name. I remember when I thought, 'Why would he love me?" and it shows thru my actions when the love was true.

I remember these things and when they continue to happen I have come to this conclusion...

It's me... It's my thoughts. It's my self respect. I am the only person causing these things. If I don't like it I don't have to continue thinking it, doing it, and accepting it. 

So ladies if you feel like it's hard to look in the mirror straight in your own eyes, or when you look good you feel uncomfortable...

 Just remember you have control of changing that. It all starts with you loving you the way you really want to be loved. It starts with you treating yourself the way you want to be treated. It starts with you accepting the things that you only will accept. If you do it, think it, or accept it... YOU WILL GET IT! 

"In life we live and we learn and in return we learn how to live." 

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