Saturday, March 2, 2013

Making Love to Everything

Make love to everything...

One of the most beautiful things that most human beings experience is the art of making love. 
It produces the very thing that makes you and I exists, Life. 
To produce life it takes two people to become attracted to one another and connect in a way the binds them in that moment. 
Think about the most memorable experience you've had with someone sexually. Were you connected in a way that was elevating. Did everything just stopped for that moment? Did you want to feel that way forever? Did you feel connected? Did you feel like the two of you were one? 

Imagine making love to your work. What would the world be like if every single one of us looked to connect with our skills, our knowledge, and our network in a way that produced life. Imagine becoming so attracted to your skill, so attracted to your craft that you stop everything for that moment. 

One of rb3's valued reads is "Think and Grow Rich" by Napolean Hill   Chapter 11  in the book is called, "The Mystery of Sex Transmutation" 

THE meaning of the word "transmute" is, in simple language, "the changing, or transferring of one element, or form of energy, into another."

Napoleon Hill breaks down the results of using the energy of sex & love for your work and craft and how it will produce amazing results. 

Here's a link with the full chapter 

Make love to everything that you do... The results will be life :(:

In Life we Live and We Learn and in return we Learn how to Live...

Friday, February 22, 2013

Social Media

Social Media 


Over the past few years we have been changing as a society with Social Media. Social Media in my opinion is one of the most beautiful tools we have access to. Over the last 2 days I have connected with old friends, business partners, and old associates. 

One young lady I hadn't spoken to in over 3 years found me on linked in. She told her partner I had a daycare which led us to reconnecting. 

During the conversation not only did I find out she had my book, Markita's Lost Diary and Billionaire Brown's  The Real Silver Dollar, some how she ended up with an autographed copy!!! 

Autographed copies are very exclusive and she had one. Now this weekend we are having lunch and catching up with each other. 

This goes to show how connected we really are. We are a few clicks away from one another. Just like anything else. We can use this for our benefit or we can abuse it. We can use it for good or we can use it for drama. 

Social Media forces one to THINK BIG! I mean what else is there to do?   
NOTHING! 

Think BIG and think of all the ways you can make social media a benefit for you and your friends. 

6Figuremommy :(:

In Life we Live and we Learn and in return we Learn how to Live.  

Wednesday, February 13, 2013

The Gift of Yourself


The Gift of Yourself
: That identical one that is you: you’re normal, healthy, or sane condition or self: oneself

MOMENT OF REFLECTION
The most precious gift you can give someone is yourself; you are a gift to anyone who comes in contact with you. Taking the time to share our talents, our most precious commodity TIME, and sharing our love is remarkable. It becomes extraordinary when we come to the realization that our time, talents, and love are not just here to serve ourselves, but to be shared with others. We were born with these wonderful gifts to be presented and unwrapped for the world to embrace. You are a gift that keeps on giving so pass along a smile today, someone needs you.
   
CAPTURE THE MOMENT CHALLENGE
Pick a charity or a non-profit organization you are interested in knowing more about, do your research and get involved.  Ask your family and friends if they have any recommendations. Getting involved, in any capacity, keeps the passion burning in every area of your life. 

You are also welcomed to join rb3 as we travel to Central America!! We will be embracing and immersing ourselves in the culture of Guatemala! We would love your support for the 52 Weeks to Guatemala aka G52!!! For more information please email justbecause@richbeforethrity.com
To donate visit http://www.youcaring.com/mission-trip-fundraiser/G52-52-Weeks-to-Guatemala-/40536 

"In Live we Live and we Learn and in return we Learn how to Live"

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

I Committed Suicide

I committed suicide. 
Today was a day that was character building. It was a day that I will never forget. I received an unexpected call from an associate in business. You know me I am like hello what's up and she begins to ask me some personal business questions about someone she mutually does business with. She was beginning to get loud and I was also. I was calming down when I began to realize how petty I sounded forgetting totally about her. Cat fight LOL...

Then I made the right decision I believe and ended the call in a diva/professional way. I was being questioned about my business transactions and my ethics with this person. Someone who I knew was satisfied with my services. Now follow me here.
 I began to think some crazy things about him. I thought he was the cause of her rage and the cause of all that happened. I thought because I was not satisfied with his services and he knew it. I really believed he was trying to sabotage my business.... 

My BFF said, " you think all of this and you haven't even spoken to him yet. At least give him a fair chance.  I agreed with my BFF because he was  right. Give this guy a the opportunity to clear himself. Now to my astonishment when I spoke to him everything I thought was WRONG. I used my skills and I let him talk. He was satisfied with my services. He was confused by everything but he was NOT the monster I thought he was. BOOM I SHOT MY SELF...
I shot ALL my thoughts, I shot them ALL . 

 My thoughts are to serve me not for me to serve them. I use them to give me the best perspective of people... The old me I thought I was will now give EVERYONE a fair deal.... 

I have committed suicide. Here's the new me. 

In Live we Live and we Learn and in return we Learn how to Live... :-) 

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

What's Anything? 

 It was late the other night and I was in my mode of reflection and as I just sat and reflected on my life I became "awed" 
For some strange reason the scripture, "Anything is possible thru Christ who strengthens me" stuck out to me. I thought, Anything is a whole lot. Think to yourself what Anything could be. Anything? Seriously Anything? 

What's is anything? Now regardless if you are religious or not just the possibility of that being 100% true is mind boggling. 

For example, Lance Armstrong is someone who appears to be finished completely in defeat with his career and who he is as a person. But ANYTHING means he can turn his life around. 
Most of the problems that we all have we try to fix and we worry about them, and other small things forgetting ANYTHING is possible. 

So the next time your planning a victory, or want to start a company, or you act on an idea, or you decide to lose weigh, or you start speaking,or you begin to teach, or you switch your diets, or you create a product, or you decide to impact the world. Imagine what our results will be if we understand what ANYTHING really means.... 

In Life we Live and We Learn and I return we Learn how to Live......

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

God Willing?

God Willing? 

Have you ever had a conversation with someone about doing something or going somewhere. Everything is confirmed and at the end they say "God Willing?" 
Well when I hear it I feel like pulling out my hair. I feel like God is always willing. He always wants to give support in all that you and I do. Yes it can be argued that tomorrow is not promised to any of us and thats why I say it, but death is out of our control. Unless of course you choose to end your life, otherwise its no way to really know.  So why even put energy there? 
I feel sometimes the phrase is used as an excuse. For example, lets say you tell me your going to come to an event and I say I will come, God willing and then I don't show up...
Was God not willing? 
All I'm saying is God is willing, able, and ready for all of us to make moves. Powerful moves. Speaking about moves please stay tune for another rb3 blog coming up March 1st, 2013 ... "Frowns2Smiles Eating" We will share top secret recipes for those who desire to eat right and it actually  taste good....
Stay tune till next weeks blog, God Willing lol (just kidding) 

"In Life we Live and we Learn, and in return we Learn how to Live"

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Blocking

I was reminded today about an amazing event that happened in my life several months ago. It was a late night, about 10 or 11pm and I was out with my two sons driving around. We were putting out signs to promote my business. You know the signs that you see on utility polls on highways or locally. Yes I do put out signs. Marketing is key right. :)

Well I found the BEST location for one right at a light going onto a major highway in my area. So as I pulled over a car pulls up behind me. So I waited for the car to go pass me but he just sat there. I rolled my window down and signaled him to go around me and he just sat there. I turned around and made hand gestures to go around me and he just sat there. So I just sat there.  Now this was about 4 minutes in and I won't lie, I was getting very scared. Then I turned my head around towards him and I could see him making hand gestures at me. Now I became angry and I was yelling in the car, "this idiot has to be drunk" and if you really know me I do have a bid of stubbornness when I want something and I wanted my sign on that pole.

So, I bust a U-Turn so the car would be in front of me... And what happened next made my jaws drop to the floor and tears flooded my eyes. That man pulled off but instead of going onto the highway like I expected, he pulled in his driveway. What was the likely hood of me being in front of his house and blocking his driveway. He's driveway was the LAST house before the highway.
I thought this man was drunk, I thought he was an idiot,  My thoughts were wrong! Dead wrong. Of course my kids were totally confused to why I was crying. You also maybe confused to why I was crying... So I'll tell you what I told my boys....

If I thought he was all of what I though he was and ended up being an innocent man just trying to get home what else in my life could I possible see as being not good and in reality it's all good. I learned in that second my thoughts are SO POWERFUL they can distort reality. Our thoughts can distort what is to what's our. So it is true that whatever we see we are.
And Zyaire fell asleep and Zykir said, "So we can change it too the other way too right" and I said, "what do you mean? " Zykir Said, "you know like, you could next time see the man and his driveway first?" I smiled and said "YES"

"In Life We Live and We Learn and In Return We Know How To Live"